The question of hijab, suppression or liberation?
“Why do Muslim women have to cover their heads?” This question is one
which is asked by Muslim and non-Muslim alike. For many women it is the
truest test of being a Muslim.
The answer to the question is very simple - Muslim women observe HIJAB
(covering the head and the body) because Allah has told them to do so.
“O Prophet, tell your wives and daughters and the believing
women to draw their outer garments around them (when they go out or are
among men). That is better in order that they may be known (to be Muslims)
and not annoyed...” (Qur’an 33:59)
Other secondary reasons include the requirement for modesty in both men
and women. Both will then be evaluated for intelligence and skills instead
of looks and sexuality. An Iranian school girl is quoted as saying, “We want
to stop men from treating us like sex objects, as they have always done. We
want them to ignore our appearance and to be attentive to our personalities
and mind. We want them to take us seriously and treat us as equals and not
just chase us around for our bodies and physical looks.”
A Muslim woman who covers her head is making a statement about her
identity. Anyone who sees her will know that she is a Muslim and has a good
moral character. Many Muslim women who cover are filled with dignity and
self esteem; they are pleased to be identified as a Muslim woman. As a
chaste, modest, pure woman, she does not want her sexuality to enter into
interactions with men in the smallest degree. A woman who covers herself is
concealing her sexuality but allowing her femininity to be brought out.
The Qur’an says:
“Say to the believing man that they should lower their gaze
and guard their modesty; that will make for greater purity for them; and
Allah is well acquainted with all that they do.
“And say to the believing women that they should lower their
gaze and guard their modesty; and that they should not display their beauty
and ornaments except what must ordinarily appear thereof; that they should
draw their veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to
their husbands...” (Qur’an 24:30-31)
Islam has no fixed standard as to the style of dress or type of clothing
that Muslims must wear. However, some requirements must be met. The first of
these requirements is the parts of the body which must be covered.
The second requirement is looseness. The clothing must be loose enough so
as not to describe the shape of the woman’s body. One desirable way to hide
the shape of the body is to wear a cloak over other clothes. However, if the
clothing is loose enough, an outer garment is not necessary.
Thickness is the third requirement. The clothing must be thick enough so
as not to show the color of the skin it covers or the shape of the body.
Another requirement is an overall dignified appearance. The clothing
should not attract men’s attention to the woman. It should not be shiny and
flashy so that everyone notices the dress and the woman.
In addition there are other requirements:
• Women must not dress so as to appear as men.
• Women should not dress in imitation of the unbelievers.
• The clothing should be modest, not excessively fancy and also not
excessively ragged to gain others admiration or sympathy.
Often forgotten is the fact that modern Western dress is a new invention.
Looking at the clothing of women as recently as seventy years ago, we see
clothing similar to hijab. These active and hard-working women of the West
were not inhibited by their clothing which consisted of long, full dresses
and various types of head covering. Muslim women who wear hijab do not find
it impractical or interfering with their activities in all levels and walks
Hijab is not merely a covering dress but more importantly, it is behavior,
manners, speech and appearance in public. Dress is only one facet of the
The basic requirement of the Muslim woman’s dress apply to the Muslim
man’s clothing with the difference being manly in degree. Modesty requires
that the area between the navel and the knee be covered in front of all
people except the wife. The clothing of men should not be like the dress of
women, nor should it be tight or provocative. A Muslim should dress to show
his identity as a Muslim. Men are not allowed to wear gold or silk. However,
both are allowed for women.
For both men and women, clothing requirements are not meant to be a
restriction but rather a way in which society will function in a proper,
Because it gives me freedom.
Women are taught from early childhood that their worth is proportional to
their attractiveness. We feel compelled to pursue abstract notions of
beauty, half realizing that such a pursuit is futile.
When women reject this form of oppression, they face ridicule and
contempt. Whether it’s women who refuse to wear makeup or to shave their
legs, or to expose their bodies, society, both men and women, have trouble
dealing with them.
In the Western world, the hijab has come to symbolize either forced
silence or radical, unconscionable militancy. Actually, it’s neither. It is
simply a woman’s assertion that judgment of her physical person is to play
no role whatsoever in social interaction.
Wearing the hijab has given me freedom from constant attention to my
physical self. Because my appearance is not subjected to public scrutiny, my
beauty, or perhaps lack of it, has been removed from the realm of what can
legitimately be discussed.
No one knows whether my hair looks as if I just stepped out of a salon,
whether or not I can pinch an inch, or even if I have unsightly stretch
marks. And because no one knows, no one cares.
Feeling that one has to meet the impossible male standards of beauty is
tiring and often humiliating. I should know, I spent my entire teenage years
trying to do it. It was a borderline bulimic and spent a lot of money I
didn’t have on potions and lotions in hopes of becoming the next Cindy
The definition of beauty is ever-changing; waifish is good, waifish is
bad, athletic is good -- sorry, athletic is bad. Narrow hips? Great. Narrow
hips? Too bad.
Women are not going to achieve equality with the right to bear their
breasts in public, as some people would like to have you believe. That would
only make us party to our own objectification. True equality will be had
only when women don’t need to display themselves to get attention and won’t
need to defend their decision to keep their bodies to themselves.